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Marital Bliss
October 17th, 2007 @ 5:45 pm

When I was a little girl, I made the decision that I would never get married and I have no intention of ever changing my mind. Today, I was sitting in the work staff room, trying to each my lunch in peace, when two of my female colleagues started moaning about how useless their husbands were. I’d like to say this was an isolated incident but it happens every day. So, I sit there wondering why they are still married if they think so badly of the other halves?

Sadly, I know more people who are separated or divorced than married these days.

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3 Comments

  1. Nina
    said,

    October 18, 2007 at 1:30 pm

    I agree with you. It’s quite sad at how many people get divorced. Marriage is something that shouldn’t be easily ruined. People should try and work their problems out first or not get married in the first place. ^_^

  2. captain lifecruiser SWEDEN
    said,

    October 18, 2007 at 2:00 pm

    Actually, I wonder the same - AND with an add: they complain too much about their kids too. Even so that the hubby and the kids hear it, which I think is the worst!!!! And not only saying it, I call it nagging. *shivers*

    I never do that, if I think something is wrong I talk about it first and then change it. And if it’s not possible to change, I have to make a decision: will I live with it? If not - leave! If I stay, I stop complaining about it because I’ve made the choice myself.

    I’m so tired of hearing all this nagging too.

    Oh, and: there is a lot of happy marriages too! Really! *giggles*

    It’s just a matter of meeting the right one, too many doesn’t do that. They get married for the wrong reasons. Not of TRUE LOVE.

  3. RennyBA NORWAY
    said,

    October 18, 2007 at 10:47 pm

    I do agree with you - to much nagging and complaining. I do understand your position, but since I am married and not only once, I would say; couples does not invest enough in the relationship. They are to selfish and forget that you have to care for the relationship just like a plant - need water, manure and light.

    Its actually a funny coincidence as I am about to write a post about it - hope you’ll have time to read it tomorrow :-)

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