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People Suck
May 1st, 2008 @ 8:16 pm

There are times in my life when I really hate people and think my life would be so much simpler without them. I made the mistake of sticking up for myself at work against S the SuperBitch and now I’ve been made to look like the bad one. I’m so at the end of my tether with this girl and I’m pretty much near to losing it completely. The slightest thing makes me want to cry and that is not the person I am. I’ve never in my life wanted to hurt another human being so badly.

My grandma used to say if you give people enough rope, they will hang themselves, but so help me, nothing seems to stick to this girl and everyone else gets the blame. Am I so wrong in my thinking? Here’s a little review of her working life:

– spends two days designing an album cover for her band using company resources and leaving others to do her work
– threatens to call in sick if she isn’t given the leave she has requested despite the fact others have already had their leave approved.
– saunters into work late and leaves early and owes the company at least two days flexi
– spends most of the day on the phone arranging gigs and talking with bandmates
– spends the majority of the day on the internet reading comments on her MySpace account
– tells other people how I am harassing her and completely denies saying things she said loud enough for the whole office to hear

There are plenty more examples but I’m not spending all night detailing them and talking about her right now is making me frustrated and tearful enough. What do I do? Ignore her?

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3 Comments

  1. SwordMama
    said,

    May 1, 2008 at 9:35 pm

    I’ve had a rough week too. Some people are just plain awful!! I’ve felt like crying for days now. I think it is definitely best for you to stand up for yourself. Can you get her on tape saying those things?

    sending some hugs ((()))

  2. Lisa Ann UNITED STATES
    said,

    May 2, 2008 at 3:06 pm

    Your right people suck. Don’t let the troll’s of this world get to you. Hang in there :)

  3. captain lifecruiser
    said,

    May 3, 2008 at 7:59 pm

    The best thing would of course be if she could be exposed doing something of the mentioned things, but if not you have to have patience. It sucks I know, I’ve been in a similar situations but in the long run, it’s she who is loosing. It’s just so darn hard to wait…

    Just cut her off from your mind, she does not exist. That’s the best way to deal with it. Just show off yourself from your best side and in the end, all will be gained by this excluding path.

    Don’t let her behavior get on you. If you don’t react like you do, she can’t reach you. Shrug it off and smile at her instead, sounds crazy I know, but it works!

    If you’re lucky, she will get another job somewhere soon, it’s not sounding exactly like she like her job…

    Working with others can be so tough some times. Phew.

    ((Hugs))

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